ten percent happier

Many conversations have been had between my husband and I on how to make our lives better. We really want to focus on only the most important things. When Tanner first brought up the conversation of minimalism I listened and supported him. The more he talked about it the more I found myself really agreeing with the ideals and was curious to know more. I listened to the podcasts which gave me the right motivation to simplify my life in all aspects (things, finances, shopping, relationships, etc).

Minimalism is about taking the time to get rid of the excess stuff in your life so you can live more meaningfully and focus on what's important.

Reactions from others have been rather interesting. When someone hears "minimalism" it is often associated with practically nothing. A family member made a comment when talking about us becoming minimalists, "I could never be a minimalist, I just want to have the things I need." It made made me smile because that is EXACTLY what it's about. Minimalism is the practice of being deliberate and keeping only the essentials that add value so that you can focus on the most important parts of your life. As The Minimalists say, "Love people, use things. The opposite never works." What I really like about this is there is no 'one size fits all' in how to achieve it. I sincerely believe everyone could benefit in some way or another by simplifying something (if not everything).

It's been over a year now since I started and man can I tell you I already feel more free than I ever have. I've been able to focus more on my bond with my husband and son. I find my days filled with more meaningful activities. My goals and future plans seem just that much brighter. In fact I feel ten percent happier (this is in reference to mindful meditation but I think it also applies in this situation as well). These boys are a big reason I'm trying to be the best me I can be.

Especially as we approach the holiday season, its a good reminder for me that less really can be more.

If you are curious about Minimalism you can watch their documentary on Netflix. Then when you too want to find ways to simplify listen to their many podcasts.